Like all things in life, love is also like a “bell”, as When you start a relationship, everything is new, disturbing, and fun, but as time goes by, it seems that the flame is extinguished, leaving aside all romanticism.
Maybe, when they started their relationship, they used to go out dancing, having a drink, or simply going for a walk to a place that they both like. And now, surely her only romantic plan is to watch movies or series on Netflix, which, most. I could call it boring.
If you are one of those, we have news for you, since a study found that having a “boring” relationship could be the key to your success.
Mark Manson, who is the author of the book “The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F ***“, states that relationships must be “as boring as possible” to resist over time.
“That sounds very strange to people, but if you think about it, a really happy 80-year-old couple who have been together for 60 years, the reason they have lasted so long is not precisely because they take a plane and have crazy vacations, that they photographed at all times, is because they could be bored together. They can spend year after year, sitting around the house, talking about the same boring things, watching television, watching movies, preparing dinner, and everything went well, “Manson explained in an interview with Business Insider.
The relationship expert indicated that today, because of social networks, people have the pressure of not being seen as “boring”, so he asks everyone to see this concept as something positive, especially in the love theme.