Perhaps this day will serve to do an introspection and find out what is preventing you from having a good relationship.
The month of love and friendship has arrived! February is tinged with passion and although some flee to the #foreveralone On social networks, others take advantage of the month to go out and expose themselves to Cupid’s arrows, but … Be careful! Because Valentine’s Day can be the perfect pretext to fall into desperate barrabasadas, reckless actions and toxic behavior in order to honor the phrase known as “Latin Passion”.
In reality, the much-worn phrase “has no race, no color, no stereotypes, no preconceptions.” The so-called “Latin Passion” is more about finding and getting to know the right person better, sharing with them, accepting them as they are and letting go.
Yes, let us allow ourselves to be dictated by our hearts and express our feelings without strings attached.
But now I propose something different this Valentine’s Day and perhaps you will discover the true “Latin Passion”.
It is an exercise in self-discovery, which goes a little further than looking for a mere night of passion or finding your perfect soulmate. For Valentine’s Day, I invite you to make an appointment with yourself: go to dinner at your favorite place, without being tempted to look at the mobile screen a dozen times.
The idea is that you pass awhile with yourselfBecause in tranquility, there is health and fulfillment within you. There, alone, in the chosen place, you can enjoy the many sensations that surround you: forgive yourself, accept yourself, recognize yourself and love yourself first; remember that you will have to live with yourself for a long time.
The observation exercise will help you understand a little what you really need emotionally, you will become aware of your own mood and what you are really looking for in a partner, and if you are already in a relationship, it will help you assess what you need and can offer at this stage of your life.
Make time and reflect on it this February 14! You will be surprised by what you will discover …!
Pedro Kóminik is the expert presenter of the program “Our Daily Sex”, tbroadcasted by Canal 22 Internacional on Saturdays at 10:00 pm Pacific / 1:00 am East, and is broadcast on Mondays at 9:00 pm Pacific / 12:00 am East.